I’m going to break these tips into 2 categories: Resources and Personal. While this is probably going to be the most helpful to those whose babies are spending over 90 days in the NICU, there will also be some basic information to help most parents experiencing what we often called the “NICU rollercoaster” journey.
"I want you to live as free of complications as possible. When you’re unmarried, you’re free to concentrate on simply pleasing the Master. Marriage involves you in all the nuts and bolts of domestic life and in wanting to please your spouse, leading to so many more demands on your attention.....
I had people say I was crazy or foolish for wanting to keep myself till I get married. That I wasn't being realistic in this day and age. I didn't always live this way, let's be real, but by His grace, I remained patient; I obeyed God in telling me to cut off the people he knew weren't for me. I stayed in the Word, resisted the tempting text messages, pictures and phone calls that would lead me out the door & laid up in some man's bed.